HER VOICE IS GREATER THAN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE I TELL YOU.

Please take a listen to this woman. I have always loved  Jessie J and this song is the reason why i bought her self titled (Jessie J) album.

You'll be in awe...

Love and Lipgloss
xxxx

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Give away : Shop & mingle with P&H Boutique & Grazia magazine

Hi Ladies,

It's a give away special on today's post

P&H boutique an online shopping store are hosting a shop & mingle at La Passant restaurant in Sandton on Wednesday 5 December from 18:00 to 22:00. The day is set to be a fashionable evening out. Guests will be greeted on a red carpet with couture cocktails and platters.

There will be various exhibitors at the shop & mingle:

P&H boutique - South Africa's premium online shopping destination www.phboutique.com

• Ruutos Hair - Hair extensions specialists
• MissShape - A forward-looking range for curvy women who are looking for flattering clothes. This range formed part of the Renault rising talent competition
• Epitome image and lifestyle management - They will be giving expert advise on colour co-ordination and grooming tips
• Ms Match - Luxury imported jewellery
• John Oxford collection - Egyptian cotton men's shirts... and lots more.

So, if this is your kind of vibe and would like to come, I'm giving away FIVE double tickets to the event, which will include a gift hamper with a copy of Grazia magazine, DestinyMan magazine and BlaqueUp cosmetics products.

All you need to do is:

1. Follow P&H boutique on
Twitter : @PH_boutique 
P&H Boutique Facebook page 

2.You will need to tweet me directly @Buhle_molestane say :
"I want to win tickets to the Shop & Mingle"

3. The hastag for the campaign is #Shop&Mingle

Good luck to all of you :)

Love and Lipgloss

Xxx

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BEST THING THAT I DID FOR MYSELF WAS TAKING OFF MY MASK,AND START BEING UNAPOLOGETIC FOR WHO I REALLY AM

I came to the realisation that I am not perfect and me not being perfect made me enjoy every minute of it because with every mistake I make,I grow from it and become wiser.

I am 23 years of age,and I have spent half of my life wanting to be "cooler",wanting to be surrounded by the coolest people...and when that eventually happened,I realised that it was not me and began to tell myself the truth...that I was desperate for approval,I bought into everyone elses opinion but mine and I hardly listened to my own. I was just an in authentic version of myself.

I am not saying I am a black sheep or I am a venomous person towards other people,but I am going to out myself right now by confessing that my life,personality,relationship are far from perfect. As much as I have a whole lot to be grateful for...I am still trying to find my feet in all of it.

But I know,at the end of the day...my imperfections and my faults will all connect me to my true being...slowly but surely.

So,here is my list of my imperfect self

I get stressed and anxious
I get angry
I get Jealous(this only happens when it comes to my boyfriend)
I cry
I've made mistakes
I fight with my boyfriend
I get insecure
I get frustrated
I think little of myself
I don't put myself first.

There it is. Made a decision to share this with you because I myself,am not perfect and pretending to be something that I am not will not serve me at the end of the day. Trying to fit in and being perfect is exhausting so I would just rather be myself and play my role the best way I can,and by doing that...I will eventually not see my lists as fault but rather look at the list as me being human.

Like many other people...I battle to get it all together and when life throws me with a curve ball...I get up and dust myself up and start again....or continue where I left off.

So do yourself a favour and recommit to making your health and well being your number one priority

And be unapologetic about who you really are.

Do you want to out yourself with your imperfections? If so,do share them with me on this post. Acknowledge yourself for being you

Love and lipgloss
Xxx

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BUHLIOLOGY

BUHLIOLOGY....A SUBJECT THAT I HAVE BEEN MAJORING IN

For the past few weeks, I have decided to hibernate in Bubuville, it was very much needed and as i was doing that I did a whole lot of de-cluttering when it comes to the people i keep in my life. And can i tell you that its been wonderful doing that thus far.

I took time out to experience the presence of God and withdraw from the presence of other people, and in doing so...God has been revealing through vision what He wants me to do because I gave Him my life and the work that He does in me He will see it, finish it until Jesus comes.(Sorry for going all Christian on you guys lol, just had to).  I can’t tell you how much I’ve grown as an individual, getting rid of toxic associations and just getting to know myself as a whole. And I must say, I have learned a lot about myself and still learning. So while I am at it, I shall continue to let my gifts slice everything in the atmosphere, and to always shine beyond any negativity, and know that there is NO competition to win a trophy because there are enough blessings for all of us.

And lastly, to go be what I was born to be, stand firm and DO ME!! And I WILL be happy because happiness is the BEST elixir for me.

Love and Lipgloss

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Resentment

         

I remember this one time,my friend and I were heading to lunch,as I was driving I decided to play my favourite Beyonce album of all times,Bday. Then we played a track called “resentment”,the silence in the car while the song was playing....we only had *sigh* moments because we couldn’t describe the severity of that song,the lyrics,the passion behind it when Beyonce was singing it.

I guess we felt that way because we both related to the song,and I am guessing any other girl can relate too to the song. (Yes, I am only speaking for ladies only here)

Listening to the song made me realise that, as much as we shove it under the carpet like it is nothing,we learned and grew from it but nothing takes away the scar of someone cheating on you...especially when you are giving your entire self and life to them..even when there probably isn’t anything much,your mind starts wondering and racing. It is sad and it hurts.

Even hurts more to make someone who is so beautiful,so beautifully minded,hearted and spirited,to even wonder what it is they are not giving or when someone they are giving their soul to seems to not be satisfied by so much. Never mind brains hey,a whole heart full of love,charisma and spirit...all of that for a quick come on some filthy girl. Not cool at all

I guess we learn from our experiences. I may not be perfect myself but one thing I know about myself is that I will NEVER make someone pay the price for being a loving significant other. 

Anyway,do listen to the song so that you’ll get an idea of what I am talking about

Love and lipgloss

xxxx

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