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SELF TALK



I think all of us are familiar with the whole ‘self talk thing', Where we find ourselves rethinking situations in our heads and Just thinking about how we should have said this and that instead of such and such, and the more you think about that situation...the more it aggravates your anger even more.

Self talk is dangerous, because we believe only what is wrong in our lives.  We believe what Satan and other people say about us, Which leads to buttered emotions and you start telling yourself that you are a failure and that you are lonely and you are miserable.
We feel that we don’t measure up because we think someone out there has a better life than ourselves, Here is what I am telling you now....

YOU NEED TO LEARN THE SECRET TO BE CONTENT.
God has made you who you are and you should celebrate who you are because at the end of the day, it is not what people say TO YOU, it is what YOU say to YOU.
God has said in His word: “You are the apple of my eyes”, so why be desperate for love?
It is up to you to engage in self talk to say and actually comprehend that God loves you.
Look within yourself and face yourself. Define what’s meaningful to you because there is nothing more rewarding than leading a purpose driven life. Define what love, relationships and happiness means to YOU personally.
I have found my key ingredient to happiness  J,and may YOURS grow and enrich you.

 May you all engage in positive self talk.

Love and Lipgloss

xxxx

DEANDRE BRACKENSICK!!!!! THIS MAN ROCKS MY EVERY BEING! SUCH TALENT



I was watching American Idols today,the contentsants were to peform songs by Whitney and Stevie Wonder. So this beautiful young man perfomed a track by Stevie Wonder. I was BLOWN AWAY!!! I HAVE NEVER ACTUALLY!!!, what a voice,I even got chills while watching peformance.

Here is a clip of his peformance. Be blown away ;)

Love and Lipgloss

xxxx

MY OTHER ARM



He's my main attraction, my rock star and my number one...after God that is. He is such a cutie! Crazy about him. When he touches me, I'm already a puddle of water on the floor! Beyond melted!!love him so much now, because of the calibre of Man that he is.
I'm glad I'm where I am, its turning out to be what I've always wanted day by day...haven't felt like I'm with a Man in ages, been feeling like I've been with people who haven't come into their manhood yet, still toying with boyhood...
And its all about timing, and I never got impatient and went somewhere else...this though has been THEE patience test of ma life!! But I truly have so much respect for him that in some instances I don't want treat him like "Baby" only, ‎​Like just a boyfriend! the way I have such respect for him...I don't ever want to find myself forgetting my place or who I'm dealing with and relaxing on it..EVER
I think truly this is the fulfilment of the scripture where God says.."Encourage each other unto greatness"
Okay I'll stop right here before I share too much.

Love and lipgloss
Xxx

HAMBA KAHLE 2011

Finally this year is about to come to an end! It was indeed a tough,tiring,emotional and happy year.
I have also accomplished a few things that I never imagined that I will accomplish.  I now know that the sky is NOT the limit and I have taught myself to ALWAYS ALWAYS get my own because life is about you yourself and your own hustle.
This year has truly been a year of great blessings galore and now I pause to look at all the blessings that my God has blessed me with, like being one of the cover ladies in the most prominent magazine ever Destiny Magazine ,boy I NEVER thought i would ever make it to that magazine It was truly a dream come true and I will forever cherish that day and it will forever be a constant reminder as to why I should work hard every day!. And also recently, I have been chosen to be one of the brand ambassadors to a salon name Chique Beauty...totally unexpected, there is going to be a whole lot exciting stuff that are going to happen, going to have a mini online show where we get to interview female entrepreneurs and inspire aspiring entrepreneurs out there. So if you want to know more about Chique Beauty, log onto their website www.chiquebeauty.co.za
2011 you have been a phenomenal year and it can only be God.s grace. I have learnt a lot about life and as I was doing that i watched myself grow as an individual. Learnt to not look at the girl on the left nor on my right and solely focus on me because I am who I am and I will never wake up the next day and be someone else. Learnt that mirror reflects your face but association reflects who you are. Learnt that God resists the proud and graces the humble. Learnt to talk a little and hear much. Learnt that I don’t have to stop working hard thinking that no one is watching....somewhere someone is always watching. Also learnt to not camp at my own losses. And lastly I learnt to embrace struggle....continued to stay happy despite my situations. As Maya Angelou would put it: “Be present in all things and thankful for all things”.
I pray for a much more stronger year next year with lots and lots of blessings
Heartfelt thanks to everybody who has been visiting my blog. I really appreciate it.
Love and Lipgloss

POWER COVER OF DESTINY MAGAZINE


Mid September  I was given a call saying that I was going to be one of the girls that are going to be on the cover of Destiny Magazine with mentor Carol Bouwer.
I cannot express the joy that I had that day, I was totally left in awe. I just did not believe that I was chosen to be on the cover with Carol, someone whom I have been longing to meet! It was just too amazing
And I always kept asking myself “who am I that time?”and yet this says so much as to where I want to be in the near future.
Carol Bouwer is one of the most graceful and beautiful women I have ever met, she is totally a powerhouse! And I would love to emulate her and be the Carol Bouwer in my most respective way. It was too much of a pleasure meeting her. And after having a talk with her, a whole lot of things triggered me. I realised that God blessed me with the potential to make anything possible as long as I believe I deserve it, and I always have to make sure that God is pleased every time I lay down to sleep.
This whole experience just increased my positivity sky rocket and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
I can only go higher from here.

Love and Lipgloss
xxxx
Picture coutersy of destinyconnect.com