Glambition: 2011

HAMBA KAHLE 2011

Finally this year is about to come to an end! It was indeed a tough,tiring,emotional and happy year.

I have also accomplished a few things that I never imagined that I will accomplish. I now know that the sky is NOT the limit and I have taught myself to ALWAYS ALWAYS get my own because life is about you yourself and your own hustle.

This year has truly been a year of great blessings galore and now I pause to look at all the blessings that my God has blessed me with, like being one of the cover ladies in the most prominent magazine ever Destiny Magazine ,boy I NEVER thought i would ever make it to that magazine It was truly a dream come true and I will forever cherish that day and it will forever be a constant reminder as to why I should work hard every day!. And also recently, I have been chosen to be one of the brand ambassadors to a salon name Chique Beauty...totally unexpected, there is going to be a whole lot exciting stuff that are going to happen, going to have a mini online show where we get to interview female entrepreneurs and inspire aspiring entrepreneurs out there. So if you want to know more about Chique Beauty, log onto their website www.chiquebeauty.co.za

2011 you have been a phenomenal year and it can only be God.s grace. I have learnt a lot about life and as I was doing that i watched myself grow as an individual. Learnt to not look at the girl on the left nor on my right and solely focus on me because I am who I am and I will never wake up the next day and be someone else. Learnt that mirror reflects your face but association reflects who you are. Learnt that God resists the proud and graces the humble. Learnt to talk a little and hear much. Learnt that I don’t have to stop working hard thinking that no one is watching....somewhere someone is always watching. Also learnt to not camp at my own losses. And lastly I learnt to embrace struggle....continued to stay happy despite my situations. As Maya Angelou would put it: “Be present in all things and thankful for all things”.

I pray for a much more stronger year next year with lots and lots of blessings

Heartfelt thanks to everybody who has been visiting my blog. I really appreciate it.

Love and Lipgloss

POWER COVER OF DESTINY MAGAZINE

Mid September I was given a call saying that I was going to be one of the girls that are going to be on the cover of Destiny Magazine with mentor Carol Bouwer.

I cannot express the joy that I had that day, I was totally left in awe. I just did not believe that I was chosen to be on the cover with Carol, someone whom I have been longing to meet! It was just too amazing

And I always kept asking myself “who am I that time?”and yet this says so much as to where I want to be in the near future.

Carol Bouwer is one of the most graceful and beautiful women I have ever met, she is totally a powerhouse! And I would love to emulate her and be the Carol Bouwer in my most respective way. It was too much of a pleasure meeting her. And after having a talk with her, a whole lot of things triggered me. I realised that God blessed me with the potential to make anything possible as long as I believe I deserve it, and I always have to make sure that God is pleased every time I lay down to sleep.

This whole experience just increased my positivity sky rocket and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

I can only go higher from here.

Love and Lipgloss

xxxx

Picture coutersy of destinyconnect.com

Video: Power Cover reader Buhle Moletsane - Women's Business Network and Lifestyle Magazine - DestinyConnect

I WANT TO BE ONE OF THE RESIDENTS OF SUCCESSFULVILLE

So I had a moment to myself today and I have realised that, life is too short to be little. There is so much that one can do in this world and it is all about believing that you can succeed and if you do believe, you will, and please, there is nothing magical nor mystical about the power of belief because belief triggers the power to do.

Although I have moments where I am just on the verge of giving up, where life just takes its toll and it just starts to feel like a math exam I never got to write, but thankfully I am reminded by God everyday that, that’s how life is, because He does not take you TO where He cannot take you THROUGH.

All you have to do is just change your mindset, your mindset is your thought factory after all, it is like a busy factory producing countless thoughts in one day. And in that brainwave of yours, there is Mr Triumph and Mr Defeat and do not ever ever listen to Mr Defeat! Because he will always convince you that you will fail.

So go out there, make your dreams come alive and do not ever feel as if you are inadequate and never underestimate your own intelligence. Do not sell yourself short. Concentrate on your assets and discover your superior talents.

And with God, you have all the success in the world.

Be brilliant.

Love and Lipgloss

**goes back to studying**

THIS SONG IS STILL A HEEEEAT IN MY WORLD

Wow how i used to love Tevin Campell

I wonder where is he now, apparently he is doing acting now.
wonder how is that going!

Anywho....heres the song.

Love and Lipgloss
xxxxx

LOVE IS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THING!!!!

I totally ADORE this song, it makes one believe that love really does exist. My favourite line from the song is from the first verse, which says “just smile for me and let the day begin”...isn’t that just wonderful?? Imagine having someone like that who’ll say such words to you, that would definitely make my days, my years rather.

If I had to be in a relationship like that and things had to end, I would really not regret the moments that we’ve shared together, because through the pain I will experience is a new sense of purpose, worth and respect for myself.

Although a break-up is never like having a forest cake with a cup of tea...and it never will, but it passes. The point is to learn and not lose yourself.

Ok ok let me not bore you with long stories.

Enjoy the song

Love and Lipgloss

xxxx

MY TWO BOOKS OF THE MONTH

My two books of the month are “The ultimate happiness prescription” by Deepack Chopra and also “The magic of thinking big” by David J Schwartz.

Both these books are great reads. First book talks about the 7 keys to joy and enlightment and just how the happiest existence that anyone can imagine is to live in the mind of God. Overall, it just explains how happiness is just the best elixir.

The second book talks about how it is essential for us to plan our lives/goals at least 10 years ahead, because we must form an image NOW of the person we want to be 10 years from now if we are to become that image.

You do not even have to plan 10 years ahead , I once read a tweet by Farah Fortune (@fcfortune) and she tweeted a tweet that read “every six months I do a vision board. I put all the things I want to achieve on that board and I tick them off as I achieve them. Try it”, and I did try it, and you know what? It is coming along pretty well because it helps me be at my own pace. So you should definitely try it out yourself.

So go get yourselves these books, great reads. Both from Exclusive Books. They worth it.

Love and Lipgloss

xxxx

THIS SONG MAKES ME APPRECIATE "IT"

I totally love this song, it is just too beautiful it just takes my breath away.

Now this is the reason why I appreciate intimacy. Two people who deeply love each other, who get to celebrate sex in private...is it not just wonderful? WOW.

If only everyone understood the meaning of it, that it is not just sex!. But i have realised that... sex to a man is like affection to a woman.

I guess we are all not the same

Enjoy the song ;)

Love and Lipgloss

xxxx

THIS SONG IS AN IRONY OF MY LIFE

I was playing my Beyonce album today and I do not know how many times I listened to this song.

I felt like the song was written for me

I realised that I bury myself with school and work, because if I am not doing my school work I am working of which there is not really much balance! I could say that my life is plain and boring. No excitement, no “ vava voom”,no drama,no nothing, just nothing.

Something is wrong with me.

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HOW HEALING SHOULD BE AS CONSTANT AS BREATHING.

Thank you world for making me feel like a trempled rose, but i also thank you for building me while you’re at it.

Three things i have learnt about life today:

1. Life edifies you

2. Life challenges you

3. Life encourages you

Today I just allowed myself to cry, just cry, because I did not want to escape the way I felt by altering my mind with “alcohol” and getting myself inebriated, I wanted to be very much aware of the situation because awareness heals, awareness is truly whole and healing is fundamentally a return to wholeness, and there is just something about the holy ghost that has activated after you’ve cried, and it is a wonderful feeling...you feel alive.

And To be most alive is to be in bliss, and when you are in that state, everything feels possible, your body is no longer a burden, you feel light as air.

It is amazing how my God always shields me from ‘kak’! , how when you cannot trace His hand but you can ALWAYS trust His heart and I am truly thankful for that.

So lesson learnt, people do not owe me anything, they are not God, I now know my place and i have secured it.

I am now becoming a better woman even when no one is watching.

I will also trust Gods promises because Modimo a se motho, because when God says He would do something for me, He is NOT going to do something that is new in TIME but He is going to do something that is new in KIND. (Hope you get my statement)

That is all I have to share tonight.

Love and Lipgloss

xxxxx

HAD SO MUCH FUN OING THE BANKY W AND SASHA P VIDEO.!!! TOO NICE

HEY YALL,

It sure as hell been a minute
So a few weeks back i did a music video with Banky W and Sasha P. The song is called 'Me and my Samsung", nah, do not have that confused look now, you probably thinking why are they singing about a brand name. Well it is because they are Samsung Ambassadors. so that is why they did that track.

I must say, i LOVE the video!! the quality is beyond amazing and for a 3 minutes video it took us literally the whole day to that video,we left the set at midnight. But it was worth it though.

heres the video, hope you like it.

Love and Lipgloss

BEST THING I NEVER HAD.....WHAT A TUUUUUNE!!

So according to my understanding, this song simply means that the grass is no always greeneron the other side!!!

May we just all try to recognize the potential of leading a happy life beside our partners, let us not take such for granted.

Love is BEAUTIFUL thing

Enjoy the song, it is one hell of a hot song!!

Love and Lipgloss

xxxx

YONDA THOMAS: THE RISING STAR!!

So i had a little talk with Yonda Thomas(former class act contenstant) and asked him if i could do an interview about him to put up on my blog and he agreed!!. And this is how the mini interview went.....

1. So you were one of the Class Act finalist last year,tell me...how was that whole experience for you?

An Exciting, inspiring learning experience more than anything. Even though it was vigorous and emotionally challenging at times.

2. And you were eliminated when you were in the top 5 if my memory serves me

correct?...how did that make you feel?...did you feel like you left too early that you didn't get a chance to fulfil your full potential?

Potential is something I walked into the competition with and the whole point of the competition was to harness and mould that potential into something far greater than what it was. That Was the goal. So I guess the Question is, has my potential grown into something greater as a result of being in Class Act? We'll see.

3. After Class Act, you were probably jobless...how did you manage to keep on pushing?

Two names Mooneyeen Lee (My Agent) and Dorothy Ann Gould (Coach and Mentor).

4. So you graduating was just some form of security?

Security, I think not. It was more like Fear... Fear of what might happen if I took the risk of following my dream, fear of disappointing my Mother and fear of failure. I thought it was a safer option, so yes it was the secure option.

5. And then BAM!! There was Muvhango! Getting that role...how did it make you feel?

It gave me my confidence back. I feel at home when performing and it felt as though I had returned home.

6. I thought Muvhango was just a cameo role but we are actually seeing you quite often these days, so you are part of the Muvhango cast now?

They are a beautiful, talented Cast and working with them was an honour. I love telling Beautiful stories and Damon's story was beautiful, interesting and relevant. But every story has an ending... And you can only wish the ending will be just as beautiful.

7. So tell me, do you have a special lady in your life?...please be honest.

I like to keep my personal life, and the people in it, personal... Sorry.

8. Any other projects you are working on at the present moment?

I'm working on a brand new show titled "fallen" it will air on the 7th July 2011 on SABC1 at 20:30. Another great story, trust me.

9. 5 years time, where do you see yourself?

The most Bankable actor in South Africa.

10. Lastly, to all those who want to fulfil a career in acting, entertainment industry as a whole, what useful advice can you give them?

Let nothing stand in your way.

Good luck on everything that you are doing my guy!! May the grace of God be with you at all times.

All it takes is YOU, QHA KE!

KIRK FRANKLIN-IMAGINE ME: THE VIDEO IS GREAT! ITS CONTENT IS SPIRIT CONSOLING

Is it not amazing how Gods love is forever sufficient?!, just knowing that you are loved by the almighty no matter what happens, I think it is truly amazing.

This song by Kirk Franklin is so powerful and uplifting.

All glory to God because i am nothing without Him and EVERYTHING because of Him.

I love the song, hope you going to love it too. The video is great too! Its content is spirit consoling

Love and Lipgloss

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DSkwad- Probably the best thing to come out of SA

They name themselves DSkwad and they are all from the West Rand. I have been listening to these boys songs for quite some time now and i must say, they are quite good, most of their tracks are club bangers.

I just hope that they will not be underrated and if they happen to be underrated they should never reach the end of their tether...they shouldn’t stop putting 100% effort into their music

Just a tip to them though...

I just want to say to them that they must DARE to be themselves, it is better than being fake and trust me they WILL shine brighter and BIGGER!! And they must know that they are more than capable of great! They must just trust in their hearts let it guide them today! and PLEASE stay humble guys!...your talents might get you jobs but your character sustains you. KNOW where you come from

Hope everyday brings musical inspiration fellaz! Mwhaa

You can find them on twitter @DSkwad

Here are some of their songs, Enjoy and pass it on to your friends♥

http://mp3twit.com/c6J "Catwalk swagger"

http://mp3twit.com/c6F "Caught up" ft kaysoul

http://mp3twit.com/c6D "end of the month"

Love and Lipgloss

xxxxx

SHOUT OUT TO TIMOTHY MAURICE

Love and Lipgloss
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MARSHA'S TRACK REALLY CUTS ME DEEP,THE VIDEO AND THE LYRICS

It is sad that gays are STILL ostracized!!! it is 2011 people! when will some get over it! because really if you think that bullying or beating someone who's sexuality is different from yours will make them change who they are?!...well think again because they will not,and it sure as hell will NOT gain you Gods favour.

There are so many things that need to be eradicated in this world...things like crime,theft and so on but NO!! people would rather beat a gay person to death!...shallow much???

Can we not live in a world filled with vile mannered people. Lets love one another and accept our differences because that's what makes us Gods children at the end of the day.

On a much lighter note...Marsha looks too damn gorgeous on this video! Enjoy

Love and Lipgloss
xxxxxx

CAN WE PLEASE LISTEN TO THE BEAUTY OF THIS SONG!

It is a song by Tarsha Mcmillian ft Anthony Hamilton and it is called 'silence kills'.
Such immense talent though???Now this is what i call rad music!!

Hope you enjoy the song.

Love and lipgloss
xxxxx

INSTEAD OF AWAITING FOR YOUR BLESSING,HOW ABOUT YOU BE A BLESSING TO SOMEONE ELSE.

One Sunday ago,i was from church and i decided to go to a mall,and as i was heading there..some little boy came up to me and said “saw’bona,bengicela ukuk’yenzela Ipoem” and i was “sure,go ahead”...and so he did the poem. It was about South Africa and the president and basically he was just talking about how much he loved his country. I gave him money afterwards and he said thank you in the most humblest way. So i asked him where he was from and so on,and he told me where he was from,he also told me that he catches a train every Sunday to come do poems for people at the mall. I was very touched to a point where i ended up in tears. A week later,i decided you know what, i am going to buy grocery for this little man and his family,and i did JUST THAT!!!. It felt amazing ! it felt too great!

I did not regret it one bit because for me it is really not about helping someone who can help me back all the time but it is about helping someone who CANNOT help me back....and thats when i knew that i haved LIVED. Felt so blessed.
We always think we do not have enough in our lives,but guess what,there is someone out there who is going through far worse than you. Since meeting that kid,i realised that i am truly blessed to come home to a home cooked meal and go to bed with a satisfied tummy. I may not have it all,my life may not be perfect but i am content.
So go out there,help a soul,be a miracle to someone else...even though that person may not be able to repay you back BUT just know that you are planting a seed for yourself and some day that seed is going to manifest into something great!!

God is love
Love and lipgloss
xxx

Cheryl Riley-one of us......THIS SONG IS BEYOND BEAUTIFUL

This song has been on repeat the WHOLE weekend on my phone....it's a beautiful song,it speaks to my spirit.It really is scary to think that someone out there could be God,its thought provoking!! That's why one should treat every individual with the respect they deserve,i know sometimes it might be hard but always remember that respect goes a long way and i ALWAYS say that it is wisdom,principle and it is actually planting a seed.

And i am speaking to those who are in sync with me and actually understand what i am talking about because to some i might sound like a crack head talking about God.

So when you walk out your door,remember that someone out there COULD be God. :)

Hope you love the song.

Love and Lipgloss
xxxxxx

MY T CREATIONS GROOMING WORKSHOP

So today i had quite an interesting day.Myself and the rest of the My T Creations team went to a workshop,Pauline Zwane(picture on your right) was the speaker and she is a beauty specialist. she was talking about beauty,how to groom yourself as a lady,what kind of product must one use for the skin,how to apply make-up the works!!!
She basically said a mouthful and these are some of the things that she said.
*Bio-oil does NOT work ladies!!!...we use it to get rid of stretch marks,i know i am guilty of that.but fact is..it does not work!!!, in order to get rid of them you HAVE to exercise everyday,jog around your neighbourhood,do home exercises and so on..and that will demolish your stretch marks
*We all have to take care of our feet! Do not think your feet smell because you were standing in the sun and they became sweaty,your feet smell because you're not taking good care of your body. You need to work out,you need to drink two litres of water.
*Now this is very important,EVERY LADY HAS TO GO FOR A PAP SMEAR....IT IS HIGHLY IMPORTANT!!!!
*Lastly,you NEED to take care of "her"...that's if you catch my drift.

REMEMBER: Grooming is extensive, it is not all about what you look like on the outside.

if you want to read more on Pauline,go to www.clinique.co.za/click on the homepage of clinique insider.

Love and Lipgloss xxxx

DEAR FUTURE BOYFRIEND

Hello. I've been waiting for you,now would be a good time thank you very much. Your previous version screwed me over to the point where I'd be taking a shower waaay later during the day and one of his whispered words would pop into my head and I'd hit the tiled shower wall without even thinking about the damage it could do to my hand.
Anyway, I think it would be nice if you looked like Will Smith or Trey Songz, but really any resemblance to a passably attractive foreign man would be a plus.
Your hobbies should not include anything remotely associated with video games, because I would seriously slit my hand when everytime i have to visit you...you are glued to your screen and barely recognise what i am wearing...after all, it took me forever and a day to look good for you.
An interest in spontaneous travel and spontaneous things in general would also be very much appreciated,because there is so much more to life than just the s.e.x word,and yes YOU HAVE TO DRESS GOOD,i am a sucker for someone who dresses good.
And just love me regardless of my flaws and i shall do the same
See you soon my lover
Much love
Me

MY FIRST TIME AT THE GARDEN OF EDEN

So i went to the Garden of Eden yesterday and it was my first time there,and i must say i loved every moment....the people,the aura,ambience..it was just too lovely!!!.The Dj's mixes where on point as well but there was just this one "Dj"that did not do it for me,but otherwise..i had a fab time! Here are some of the pictures i took while i was there.

MY FAVOURITE THINGS!!!!

Just thought i would take the time to share my favourite things with you....these are the things that i love and cherish deeply,i pretty much cannot live without them if i can put it that way.so here it goes.....

MY DIARY: in this little book i write my thoughts,what i write is raw,real and unedited...i just go with the flow and write what i feel *love it*

MY LAPTOP: my laptop basically connects me with the rest of the world in an instant...i feel like i have the whole world in my fingertips and it is totally one big storage source for my school work and recreational stuff.

DESTINY MAGAZINE: now this magazine is my monthly devoutional,a month does not pass by without me not buying it,it is very inspiring for us youngsters who still aspire to make it big.

MY BLACKBERRY: a blackberry is a must have..if you do not have it..you better make sure that you join the movement *giggles*,but on a serious not...it is a must have for me because i am a very scheduled person so if there are things that i need to do..i just type them down in my blackberry...it is easier for me to remember.

MY PURSE: it is THEEEE cutest thing i LOVE it!!!...i bought it at Forever New...when i saw the purse....it immediately said "buy me Buhle,buy me NOW!!!"

MY CD'S: from rock to pop to country music.....i just have the craziest love for music....after all,music is invited to every sinlge event that one attends.

MY BIBLE: it is my daily devotional....it inceases my positivity everyday.

THAT'S IT FOLKS!!!
Love and lipgloss
xxxx

FOR ALL THE PRETTY GIRLS OUT THERE!!

I know most of the ladies love this jam!! i dedicate this song to every gorgeous girl out there,the rest cannot hate on you because it is definitley not your fault that you were born pretty,jelousy is very serious disease so all those who are hating on them pretty ladies must get well soon.

so do continue to do the Pretty Girl Rock and keep on dripping with Gods swagg!!

Love and lipgloss
xxxx

ERIC BENET....VOICE OF NOTE INDEED!!

So here i was googlín'some stuff earlier on today,as i was doing that...i came across Eric Benet's hottest bumpin tracks,and one song that stood out for me was "cracks of my broken heart"....my oh my!!! what a B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L number!!! i forgot just how amazing this song was . i used to cringe everytime i heard this song...and stifled too(in a good way though). My favourite line from the song is "God only knows,what a heart can survive"...such profound words indeed!!!. I love good music...appreciate it so much. Just thought i would share with you guys.

love and lipgloss xxx

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